we are all just kinda forced to live together in paper thin apartments and houses with very little ability to choose who we live around and what kinds of communities to look for
just because somebody around you doesn't fit your lifestyle does not mean it is their fault or that they should change their lifestyle to cater to yours
it is not their or your fault for being forced to live in a less than ideal situation where people can't do what they enjoy without annoying others
a side note: it is perfectly reasonable to complain that you have to deal with noise or other annoyances! you can vent about that stuff!
just please do not harbour resentment/cast blame at your neighbours or others who live around you for being incompatible with your lifestyle. it is not healthy and it is not fair to them.
Chitter is a social network fostering a friendly, inclusive, and incredibly soft community.