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@Alda i've been thinking a lot about gender as a costume/performance lately and, while technically true, while my name and my personality and a lot of things about me are part of a "costume" or "performance", it's personally not a comfortable way for me to view it.
like, it's a genuinely damaging way for me to view it, compared with any positive ideas that it might generate. digs real deep into impostor syndrome bs
i get more out of simple concepts like "gender is fake"